Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of James Andrews with the following comment:
James Andrews is my first husband's great-great grandfather through his son William Andrews and grandson Alfred Macdonald Andrews. And it's a very lovely tombstone :). I can't help with your database as I'm in Italy but I can help with any queries you receive about the Andrews family, if you would like to make a note of my email address. Regards, Ellie Rose Elliott